When Love Breaks you : Lessons from the Gita on Why We Keep Falling for the Wrong People
It always begins the same way, a lingering glance, a spark that flickers into something more, a connection that feels like fate. We’re drawn in by the way they smile, the way they see us, the way they make the world feel just a little more alive. They feel like home—until they don’t. One moment, you’re floating in the warmth of shared dreams. The next, you’re silently unraveling, wondering how someone you once held with reverence became a mirror to every part of you still hurting. You try to make sense of it. You make promises to yourself. You’ll be wiser. You’ll look for red flags. You’ll make lists, follow advice, stay guarded. But the heart has its own memory. And before you know it, you’re there again.... falling, repeating, hoping. Different name, same ache. So what’s going on here? Is our love broken or is it the way we define love that needs healing? Surprisingly, the answers have been with us all along. The Bhagavad Gita , an ancient dialogue set on...